I’m Now In a Happy Relationship, Why Does She Have to Come Back?!

Exes. Some of them forget that they’re not a part of your life anymore.

The day when you’re finally happy and content with someone, they show up in front of you, leaving you confused.

“What does this mean?”

“Does she want me back?”

It’s like she is purposely trying to ruin your happiness and make you second guess your new relationship — well, this is not entirely far from the truth.

Here are a few reasons why your ex wants to reconnect with you:

She’s jealous that you’re happy.

Jealousy is a silent killer. Whenever people see their exes thrive in a new relationship, their pride can’t take it. You are happy, while they are not. So, they try to get back to you, hoping to have a little taste of that small happiness.

She’s envious of your new partner.

Why would she return when you’re already happy with your new life and your new partner?

One possible answer is that she’s envious of her. She is bitter that your new partner is better than her. Your new woman is probably more beautiful, kinder, or successful than her, and she can’t seem to accept it.

Her new relationship didn’t work out.

The grass is not always greener on the other side.

She might have left you for another person, but she soon realized it was a mistake. She knows now that the life she had with you was better, and she regrets leaving it behind for someone who is not worth it.

She is bored.

I have heard a lot of people who experienced this scenario where their exes texted them while they were drunk. They will either apologize and never contact them again or ask if there is still a chance of them getting back together.

Many have fallen from this tactic. Don’t be one of them. They are simply manipulating you. They don’t really want to rekindle the flame. They are simply bored and want to cause drama.

She’s lonely.

“I miss you,” is the opening line that most exes use when their lives don’t turn out the way they planned. They are not sending this message because they truly miss you. They only want you to feel sorry for them. It’s another manipulation technique that you should be wary of because they are simply looking for someone to comfort them.

She simply wants to boost her ego.

These toxic exes love the thrill of the chase. They will make you think that they want to get back with you for good reasons, when in fact, they only want to see if you are still the same person that they can easily manipulate. They don’t care if it means breaking your happy relationship with your new partner. They simply want to know if they still have power over you.

Don’t Ever Let Her In

What to do when your ex comes back? Nothing.

If she really wants to get back together, she will do it sensibly. She will not do it when you’re already in a happy relationship. She will do it right after your breakup. That’s the right thing to do, so don’t fall for her tricks.